How To Navigate Romantic Relationships When Youre Both Bartenders

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Even outside of that, I don’t particularly look down on bartenders in general. A lot of my friends are bartenders, I’ve definitely chased a few in my time. Some of them make great money and some of them are broke as a joke.

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” I gazed at the trio of scantily clad coeds twirling on the stripper pole. “Oh, um no.” “You’re not dating him,” I informed her. I then proceeded to do all the free Jello Shots passed my way. “God, it was so not sexy but it was hilarious! And I thought, ‘You must really like me if you’re willing to embarrass yourself,’ and then we had sex again.” I’m not entirely sure how it happened, but at one point in time, one of my coworkers was carrying on simultaneous affairs with this upstairs dude with the dog, her out of state ex-boyfriend and her live-in boyfriend.

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The man chose a wine and the couple proceeded to drink the bottle until closing time — not knowing that the specific bottle of wine was $400. “No one knew who he was when we were seeing each other. He’s too high profile now. I never gave him my number, but he always knew where to find me. He’d call to make sure I was working.” Then, as if by divine fate, an unruly birthday party gathered around him, demanding drinks and jostling him out of his seat. The guy, his beer and my shot relocated to a table directly behind my stool. I looked at my friend, the two of us utterly confused—why in the ever loving hell was he not saying thank you or, at the very least, taking the damn shot?

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Because our schedules vary, it can be difficult for bartenders to make plans, but we do love spontaneous adventures. Monday beach days or impromptu day trips give us life. Because bartenders depend on tips, your date will likely treat other people in the service industry well. One look around the room and I had to ask, “Have you ever gone on a date with him?” To which she replied, “No, but I meet him after work.” “Yeah, yeah but has the man ever slept over?

They’d rather spend the whole day sleeping so they can be fit for work at night. Of course, not all bartender-regular affairs end with one of the parties permanently exiting the bar. There’s nothing quite like walking into a room and realizing one or more of the people bending their elbows at the bar have seen you naked. Reinstating the equilibrium after doing the deed can be tricky.

Just like how you always find a bartender charming, it also happens to many others. They will try to hit on the bartenders, doesn’t care if they date someone or not. To be honest, who attract you first the time you enter a bar? You would find the way they make drinks very sexy, and as you get close to them to order your drink, the look incredibly charming.

If a person orders an angel shot with lime, then the bartender will call the police. Generally speaking, bartenders are awesome people, so dating one can be a real joy. But there are certain things to know before taking the plunge. Here, six bartenders fill us in on what you should know before you date a bartender.